I get you. I really do. It is hard AF when a delicious man who you want more than anything else in this world is not calling you back. Checking his messages. Wearing your friends out. Like when they say, “Hey, can we not talk about guys for a minute? Do you have anything else going on in your life…?” And you are like all humiliated but also pissed because this is THE only thing going on, and why won’t they listen….? There is a solution. It’s a 3-part process that take you from anxious to epic. (If you like that sort of thing).

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Here is the deal: I talk to a lot of men. I talk to the men I date, I talk to the men my friends’ date, I talk to men in the grocery store. I ask them questions about their relationships and what worked and what didn’t. Men tell me things. And over, and over, and over again there is a common denominator in divorce stories and break-up stories: “She stopped having sex with me. She complained and was unhappy.”

I am not here to protect your feelings. I’m here to share the lay of the land and give you options. Men leave women — cheat, ghost, walk out — after they have tried to explain to their woman that she is draining their energy and making their lives worse… and she won’t listen. Won’t take responsibility.

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