What if dating and relationship was easy and fun? What if your romantic life felt artistic, like a beautiful painting you created? What if you intuitively knew how to handle situations that used to baffle you? What if all your online messages converted to dates, and dates converted to the best relationship of your life?
What would that be worth to you?
THE ARTIST’S DATE (tm)
High-end coaching for cool, edgy women to manifest love like the Sistine Chapel.
Hi, I’m Sara.
I’m here to empower edgy women who like to live life on their own terms to end the cycle of self-sabotage so they can have the sexuality & romance they deserve.
I had gone to art school, hung out with the painters… and never picked up a paintbrush out of insecurity. My softness, my talent, my heart were waiting and yearning for love, sensuality, creativity and self-expression. My creative deprivation led me to a painful job where I tried to live life like everyone else, and date like everyone else — boringsville.
When I overcame my fear of expressing myself creatively, something surprising happened.
The more I picked up a paintbrush, danced and designed my lingerie collection, dating became fun, delicious and magical!
Literally magical.
I was courted by the world’s most eligible bachelors, flown around the world on epic dates and treated like I was an exquisite jewel.
Even if you don’t think you have a creative bone in your body, or if you have given up on love happening for you… stick with me as I explain …
What if the issue wasn’t settling for a mediocre relationship, or that you are with the wrong guy, or that you need to just learn one more thing… but creative deprivation?
How I developed my theory of creative deprivation.
When a woman struggles in dating or relationship, one of 2 things happens.
Some women fix the outer stuff. They trade one guy for another guy, or go into endless “fixing” mode and watch yet another Youtube hack list the “3 things to say to make him choose you” (ugh.)
Other women fix the inner stuff. They work on their energy, visualize, and go to therapy.
Some women bounce back and forth between one extreme to the other…. in what I call the downward spiral….
I began to wonder…. what if the problem was the solution?
What if — instead of sending women to therapy or making them try yet another dating app — a specialized integration of inner work and outer work could alchemize loneliness & pain into joy, connection and partnership?
Humans are both/ and creatures.
Humans are both/and.
We are energy and matter. We are masculine and feminine. We are wild artist intuitives and logical, rational and habitual.
And we need a system that can hold all of who we are so that we get what we want.
Third Way Dating.
I spent three years extensively studying systems of love, courtship, femininity and sexuality that no one in their right mind would think to put together (luckily I’m a tad nuts.)
I thoroughly researched dating manuals going back a hundred years and every contemporary relationship guru from Esther Perel to attachment theory. At the same time, I was trained in 500 coaching hours under Layla Martin, learning tantric energy practices around love & sexuality.
Some teachers focused on outer skills & behaviors. Others focused on the inner transformation and manifestation.
Like a painter mixing oils and pigments, I brought together most beautiful parts of the latest theories of dating, love and sexual magnetism— and created the most cutting-edge and transformative dating program available.
And then I added my own special dating magic sauce…
I called it “Third Way Dating” and it is the solution to creative deprivation. It combines inner work, outer work, and empowering the creative self through manifestation and artistic practices as a method of creating and recreating love.
My clients’ results astonished even me.
When I met Sara, I was a mess. I had a lot of resistance and hadn't had an orgasm in over 33 years. After 3 months the changes in me have been phenomenal! She taught me how to let my feelings flow through and out of my body. That all of me is beautiful, even when I'm raw. All of me is sensual and desirable. I'm perfect just as I am. Her methods worked for me! I am feeling more passion, more pleasure, and just more in most areas of my life, If you have the opportunity to work with this amazing woman, are open and really ready to allow yourself to heal, the results will be worth all the time, effort, and energy. — Joanne Finan, Colorado
I was single for seven years and had worked with another dating coach for a year — with no results. Sara got me a boyfriend after one session. Now, she is teaching me how to keep him. - Tara, New York City.
Sara provides a safe and supportive environment, which allowed me to feel comfortable being open and vulnerable. She has a spiritual, holistic approach to coaching that gently guided me to identity my emotional blocks around dating. She used visualization to help me shift my thinking into new, healthier patterns. She helped me to open myself up to opportunities for intimacy and partnership. —Paul S., Los Angeles
Why do Sara’s Third Way Dating practices get people exquisite, magical love — when so few couples’ therapists or love coaching produce results?
It’s like this.
Love is about trusting yourself and choosing the right tool at the right time to create beauty….. one day a stable brush and yellow pigment, the next day a linen canvas….. You learn to trust yourself when you get the results you want. And you get results through discipline & practice, feminine (or masculine energy) and magic. Yes, magic.
All the latest research — and ancient practices for that matter — tell us that whatever we focus on grows. Too many coaches and therapists focus on your problems and the lack of love — instead of love. Now, there is a place for traditional therapy to gain awareness of patterns and issues. However, at a certain point therapy can hurt rather than help. In fact, it’s been shown scientifically that talking about trauma can actually re-traumatize you.
On the other hand, living in the energy of love & abundance, while simultaneously healing the nervous system through pleasure and changing your internal belief system through neuroplasticity. creates even MORE abundance, love, sexuality, commitment, respect, femininity, beauty and joy.
Epic dating comes out of a process of creating love the way an artist creates art.
Mastery of technique + deeper inner healing + inspiration/emotion/magic/creativity = love.
Sometimes, a few sessions here and there are not enough. Are you ready to make 2020 the year you fall in love?
The Artists’ Date Coaching Program
A 4-month systematic process teaching Third Way Dating. Third Way Dating is a set of practices, techniques and sequences designed to release blocks to love and create meaningful dating experiences that convert to committed love (whether you are married or single.)
PRACTICE DATING SKILLS THAT WORK.
HEAL THE BLOCKS THAT HIDE YOUR GORGEOUS SEXUALITY, FEMININITY AND HEART.
EMPOWER CREATIVE PROSPERITY AND OVERCOME DEPRIVATION.
MANIFEST THE SOULMATE LOVE OF YOUR DREAMS.
Using Third Way Dating modules, sequences and practices, we sit together and customize 16 indicators of dating mastery for your unique life and circumstances.
You get intensive one on one attention as I guide you expertly from my own gifts and experience as a coach, teacher and curriculum designer with 15 years of experience and multiple degrees. Together we co-create a beautiful container to get you the results best for you — from unique combinations of the proven practices, sequences and techniques handed down from the best sexuality and dating educators of the 20th & 21st centuries.
As a result of the “The Artist’s Date” you will….
….create love from your femininity and impeccable boundaries.
… orgasm tomanifest a man, and create abundant romance that inspires a best friend partnership.
… direct your creative energy so that you don’t self-sabotage or destroy budding relationships.
…heal your self-critical inner talk and become the softer, more delicious, stunning version of you so that he steps up and claims you.
Plus, BONUS access to my bestselling fashion course “How To Dress For Date Night” so that you are sexy as hell and get hit on non-stop, guaranteed!
Who Is This For?
To enroll in The Artist’s Date, you must possess 3 critical factors. Without these, we cannot even accept your application.
One, you must be capable of intensive self-reflection and personal responsibility. You must be willing to see where you fall short and make changes.
Two, you have to be willing to work hard, every single day, and not give up when the going gets tough (which it will).
Three, you have to be awesome.
Not just for single girls, the Artist’s Date supports any woman — married or dating —who wants to manifest a new kind of romance and vibrant, soulmate love.
Ps. You don’t have to be an artist. It’s a metaphor ;-)
What you want wants you.
“Fortunate, indeed, is the person who has discovered how to give sex emotion an outlet through some form of creative effort, for he has, by that discovery, lifted himself to the status of a genius.” - Napoleon Hill, Think And Grow Rich.